i’ve realized today that i spent way too much time in my first year of university trying to please and be friends with these people who were essentially the most delicate little flowers on the planet who needed to discuss and dissect every single little argument until someone (mainly me) makes an empty apology(because there doesn’t even need to be an apology..or a discussion for that matter). no. we argued over something trivial and irrelevant, we slept it off, and now we can talk about something else. we don’t need to drag that argument out again. if it is something thats an obvious issue, i will sincerely apologize, but come on. quit being a pansy.